Monday, August 17, 2009

Ladies, Want to Help Him Stop Ejaculation? - What You Can Do to Make Him Last Longer

Is there anything you can do to stop ejaculation? Don't worry girls, we know it's incredibly frustrating when your partner finishes too early. Not only do you miss out on the fun but it's embarrassing for us men too. There are some things you can do that will help him stay in control and prolong the action in the bedroom.



The first thing to realize is that ending too quickly is largely a mental issue. The worry of not performing or other stressful thoughts associated with sex such as fear, anxiety or even guilt can be enough to set things off. If you want to see an improvement with a certain partner than you need to be as encouraging as possible, and try to avoid any negativity on the subject if he seems particularly sensitive.



You can help him avoid over stimulation by avoiding all contact with his penis before penetration. Inexperience men or just guys who are a bit too excited can often mistake the level of arousal they are at, and finish well before they are ready because they are too far down the path before they start.



Try getting him off once before hand, by whatever method you choose, so that by the time he is ready for the second course, he will be able to last much longer. This can mean a much longer period of foreplay for you so it may even be a better experience. If he's younger, or very excited by you, and his problems indicate he probably is, it won't take too long for him to be up for it.



Insist on a condom, or even two. Again this will reduce the stimulation as well as protect you from pregnancy and infections. Make sure you have lots of your own, or a water based bottled lubricant to ensure that it feels as natural as possible. The slipperiness can also lessen the friction and again make things last that little bit longer.



There are sexual positions that will be less intense for him, especially ones that rely on grinding or rotating rather than thrusting or bouncing. Experiment to find out which works for you.



There are lots of other great tips and techniques available which will help you to to avoid premature ejaculation before you're ready for it. Check out the links below for more great ideas.




S N Miller is committed to helping men achieve their potential in the bedroom. You can learn to perform better and you don't need pills or potions to do it.

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